She is still seen OM, but she is trying to make me believe she doesn't. This monday, when we were intimate she told me that the only person she would have sex with is me, since I was her H for 10 yrs. I honestly did no believe that, and at this point I am having mixed emotions about having sex with her. I know I should respect my self and not allow that, but at the other hand it makes me feel closer to her.
I hate to be the forum's wet-blanket hall monitor, DoubleAA, but I really hope you are using protection here?? There is a VERY high likelihood that your wife is lying about having sex with the OM, and I'd hate to see you put your own health at risk.
