i thought I was the one who was supposed to be confused
sorry , confused about what?
I thought you wanted me -- us -- to continue to ask you the tough questions, but then you seemed upset to be having to answer them.
It's just that I don't know your entire backstory, and since you were clearly using whatever it was that you had "put your husband thru" for "5-10 years" as part of your rationale about how patient you should be with him and his current infidelity, I was trying to better understand just what it was that you "did to him."
