dj21, welcome. It sounds like you've read and taken to heart the concepts of the book, now you simply have to put them into action. Remember actions, not words are what they will respond too. Read lots of posts here, you'll find your situation in what others have gone through and see a complete roadmap that will help you avoid the pitfalls others have made.
Good luck and post often you'll receive some great advice, some of it you won't always want to hear, but its for the best.
