Of course they will have to make their own decisions and their own journey of healing but it certainly is a tremendous help when there is someone who can light the way!
thanks ces - yes , in this area - i really feel that my own healing can help a lot towards healing what they went through. i like the way you put it - light the way.
i want to be the lighthouse at the edge of a large large lake where my s and h are floating - a little lost, but they know i'm here. s's boat is a little closer, i think and that makes all this worth it.
i think the sun is coming out - in ways i didn't imagine:)
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"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"