Thanks. I'm trying to limit my expectations, or basically not having any at all. It's tough when I know what I want but really don't have much more of a say in getting it. I've done what I can to make the changes I need for me.

It sounds pathetic but I'd wait until she's ready. Maybe it's because I don't know anything else but with this time apart it's just made me come to the conclusion that I don't want anything (or anyone) else.

My problem is I can only put up with so much more if she's playing me for a fool but I guess I'm not ready to do anything more serious about it.

M: 29
W: 29
T: 12 years
M: 4 years
Discovered OM: 02/10/12
ILYBNILWY: 03/01/12
W Moves Out: 05/04/12
Reconciliation Starts: 09/06/12
In-house Separation (Again): 03/09/13