New to this and hating it.

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Thanks, RH.

I have not been involved much in the sitches with kids.... vets please chime in on how Jannie can handle this with her son.

vets, what do your think of her just sending an email to him telling him that S is asking and wanting to come up together with something to tell him? imho, you need to be careful with the wording so that he does not read into it that you are trying to guilt him.. tricky as i am sure he has his own guilt..

you can even test the email out here to get feedback on wording from the vets.

how are you sleeping and eating? this can be a tough time to do both.. another vet mentioned carrying energy bars so that she would have something whenever she was hungry.

take care, jannie.