Bottom line: She's confused. It's not that uncommon to get slew from them and then they initiate contact, nice as can be like nothing happened. Mine actually said a few months post bomb/separation, "I think Im depressed. Sometimes I feel like Im supposed to be with you and the kids." of course she cntinued to flip back and forth between spew and kindness eventually filing for D a couple of months later.
Don't try to figue out why she does what she does. You'll go crazy.
I guess that's why many advise detachment. I was never good at it due to shared custody of the kids. Some in that sitch have pulled it off proving it can be done.
"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.
