i agree with you and happy to hear that you are doing the same with your in-laws. my h too is not very comfortable with it, at least i don't think - but still insists on us doing things together w/ the family.
thanks for the lovely things you say - i don't know if i am really doing that - but if that's the effect, i'm delighted.
hope you are well zig
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"