"I'm a little confused trying to find the balance between detachment and letting him come back vs. encouraging him to come back as you normally would in an A situation."
You do what will have him trust in you again. You encourage him by allowing him space and to remember the good in you. Again, start with small actions here and there. He's trying to trust in you again so it will take awhile.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.