I agree with kml.

And besides, stop taking blame for things that you didn't do. It gives your spouse a negative impression of you which is what you don't want.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER