I agree with JTB.

Don't waste your time. It's obvious she is going to continue to walk all over you. Time for you to man-up.

"She thought I was trying to interrupt her Friday wine night. "

Lame excuse. You're her H. You wanted time with your W. End of story.

Time to reclaim your life my friend.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER