I don't think what you did is pursuing because you didn't send it with a pre-meditated expectation of a reply or type of reply from your H.
You wanted to say thanks for something good that you recognise that your H did for you, that you maybe didn't feel you showed your appreciation for previously.
Absolutely nothing wrong with that, us fellas like it when we are told we did something good, it beats the sh*# out of criticism
I hope you enjoyed the wine & the light night
Bill
Me 34 W 32 D 9 S 6 M: 9 years T: 12 Bomb: 02/11/12 EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing Moved out: Oct 2012 Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13