BTW, Denver probably doesn't want to ever discuss OM again, at least not when his amygdala isn't pulsating (correct me if I'm wrong, Sir).
But once something seemingly trifling and inconsequential triggers him (the worst thing about them is that they can take you completely by surprise), his instinct will be to do battle with his wife, rehash everything and it will do far more harm than it ever will good.
I haven't brought up OM for a year now and have no plans to so. No good whatsoever would come of it. It's much easier now than it was a couple of years ago, to the point where I no longer even think about it. Life is too full to let those thoughts hijack my brain.
One of the great things about piecing is that the brain is plastic. Over a period of a couple of years you really notice that.
It's great to chat with you fellas about this topic.
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
