It's great to hear you doing so well. It sounds like you have truly moved on with your life - what a great example for your kids as well.
I am sorry to hear you have issues with your H, but it sounds like you are handling it beautifully. Good for you!
Have a fun and safe vacation trip.
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D