New to this and hating it.

[Jannie]

It's been 8 days since I had any contact with H. I am not moping around waiting, but am curious when I will next hear from him. I am actually staying very busy with my kids and friends. I don't want to get blindsided by divorce papers. I know it's what he wants and plans to do, but I would hope he would notify me first.

My son misses him and has asked about him. I don't know what to say so I just listen.

I have reconnected and/or met people who divorced or are getting a divorce this year. It's amazing how disposable marriages have become. It's sad to tear families apart and live different lifestyles due to finances. That's the one thing that scares me most...not knowing my financial future.

Anyway. I'm getting through one day at a time and most days are pretty happy.