Arsene, you are getting great support so I've been backing off and letting you absorb the advice you are getting.
On this thing about where you want your W to live, I agree with what has been said.
I do want to be clear that, you can still manage the cultural dominant/submissive nature of your W's home country (and ultimately your peers at this time) and still not "force" her or demand she do this or that.
Study the men from the area and how they relate to women and how the women respond. You have known your W long enough to get some measure of where the "balance" might be for her, if she really is pining for her roots and culture.
