When I say things will look different down the road, I'm not saying he will have changed his mind and come home. Or that you won't want to end the marriage.
I'm saying YOU will have changed.
But keep working on you. Moving won't make you happier, changing jobs won't make you happier, more family around you might not make you happier. That can only come from inside you.
Have you ever thought of volunteering? With your skills maybe you could do photos for people who would never be able to afford something like that. Just a thought.
I agree with this 100% and I get where you're coming from. It took me all day yesterday to really ponder this and I know that I need to keep my focus here. I know you must be so frustrated with me, Labug, because of how all over the place I am. Believe me, I am just as frustrated.
And, yes, I have contemplated a way to do some photography work actually for nursing homes. I know a lot of the older people there probably don't have a great picture of themselves as they are right now and I would love to be able to go there and do that for them. I was trying to set this up with one of my photographer friends. Things just keep coming up every week. But I will be making this happen in the near future.
25, I'm going to spend time today researching a sport's team I can join. Volleyball is the first thing that comes to mind. We'll see. I loved your post, too, btw. It made me laugh.
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.
