I think it's more than he was triggered. I mean he wants his W to see her "R" with the OM from his perspective. She isn't ready to see that and she may never be.

Denver, you just has to accept that. I mean I'm sure there are 100s of little things you don't agree on (I know this is a big thing) You have to treat it like that. I don't know if you can do much more than that. I do wonder why is it so important to be "right" about this?

Also, I would remember what 25 has said time and time again. Your W has to feel that you won't hold her time when you where S over her head for the rest of her life...waiting for that it to fall. You won't hold OM over her head.

I mean we would not accept our W's holding our past mistakes that led to the bomb over our heads forever. You have to find a way to move on ... or at the very least don't bring it up to her again and again. It's part of the trust factor with her.

Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.
--Jean Jacques Rousseau.