You have been on a tough journey. You have tried to DB but ultimately you have to do what works for you. I think you have learned some things here. But a marriage takes two people. Use what you have learned in your next relationship. Your current situation reminds me of my cars GPS, when you take a wrong turn or the GPS doesn't like you deviating form the path it states, "Recalculating". Now you are "Recalculating". It's all good, you can handle it. Time to move on.
Vorlon
M: 50, W: 48 M: 26 yrs S:25, D:24, S:20, D:19 Hard at work on my marriage everyday! There is hope, there is life, it is the only life we have....
