TIME for a change

[Broken74]

Thanks unbidden, you're certainly right I need to be careful. Something is certainly amiss however as her demeanor and attitude have taken a sudden dive when I have been nothing but nice to her and my SK. We have an executed separation agreement so I don't know what else she could come after me for. I guess the fact that I am no longer comfortable with the liability of my adulterous wife who wants a divorce driving a car I own may have set her off. The other part of it at this point is that I honestly do not want to see her face. I haven't seen it since February, given her actions, behavior, and attitude, why should I put myself through seeing it again.

I definitely need to concentrate on forgiveness. This is going to be extremely hard for me and this latest episode has set me back significantly in this area. She still verbally argues that she did not have an affair which is absolutely ludicrous. I can provide a mountain of evidence that proves this, which is why she blackmailed me into backdating the separation agreement to protect her and the OM. It is sickening to me that there is not going to be any justice in their behavior at all, and that I am the one left holding the financial wreckage from all of this. I am not playing the victim here, this is fact. She came in bankrupt and left debt free, I came in debt free and leave with 40k of debt to repay with nothing to show for it because she took everything of value from the marital home. Must forgive and let it go and have to figure out how to do this ASAP...

Looking forward to Monday to hopefully close everything out minus the signing and filing of the paperwork... Good luck to all in your respective sitch's!