My H knows my amazon password. I suppose I could change it; I've been changing all my passwords as I get around to it. It's too bad it's come to this.

If he asked me about the book I'd have no problem explaining what it's about and why I bought it, but I don't want him to find out about it and get concerned.

My H also has said he wants to keep things fair, and so do I, but the difference is H believes he knows what is fair, and I'm afraid I don't. And in the end, we may not agree on what is fair, even though we both agree in concept on being fair.

I'm excited to meet the financial planner Thursday - I feel good about taking responsibility for my finances.

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.