Regarding my exit strategy, I've touched on it a bit above, but basically it involves turning the tables on my W and our R and filing. I've done the homework and know that I will be fine. I've got a plan for my future that involves doing things that make me happy and fulfilled. I've acquired friendships over the past many months that I will always cherish. These friends are my support and my lifeline to a better place.
I'm going to be fine!
Yes, definitely, you will be fine! Sounds like you're in a great place and you're heading for an even better place. You are heading in an opposite direction from your W. Again, I'd much rather be you than her!