Yes, we have been going about this for a long time. My W reminds me how long this is taking on a frequent basis.
Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
I'm just working the "friends after D" angle, now. No need for us to be all "nose out of joint", if just for the sake of the kids.
I am currently working through this. I know at some point I will need to forgive my W, and I know with God's help, I can do it. However, it's going to be a long process. Right now, my W is not really treating me like a friend. I think for now we can at least be civil.