Maybe I should just forget about it. This is my life and how I would like things to run at my house and it is her problem to deal with.
Option #4 is what I would go with PW...she is the one who left, you don't question bedtime at her place...and you do not make her mad, she chooses to be so. It is going to happen as you two navigate this course. How did she deal with conflict before things went downhill? How did you? You two are relearning some things in that area, as are W and I.
That being said, maybe kick around the idea of waiting until 9:10 or so, if W hasn't called S, then have him call her (matching her clue "And that she has him call me at bedtime on her days.").
It's a dance...*sigh*
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
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