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[MrD]

I have no intrest in being together alone with her again.

[sandi2]

So why would the two of you want to "work" on being friends? I'm not trying to fight with you, I'm simply saying that you need to leave her alone.

[MrD]

So why would the two of you want to "work" on being friends? I'm not trying to fight with you, I'm simply saying that you need to leave her alone.

I understand what you are saying. And will take your advice.
There has been so much going on to share, but I feel it our marriage is done. I do feel good that I've tried everything but honestly I made some mistakes and there is nothing I can do about that now.
I'm only human and have learned from all of this to help me in the future.

[sandi2]

How are you doing? Hope you are still around.

[MrD]

I'm living seperate about 25 minutes away. My. boys ask to come over allot and I have a hard time remmembering where I put stuff in the kitchen cabinets. Other than that I'm doing pretty good with my cook book and myself living alone.
It's a big strp down from what I had but I'm living within my means.

[MrD]

It's been a month since I last checked in.
I'm dreading the up coming holidays. It's tough not to date but communication wi8th the W is even less now. I saw her a week ago and it looks like she's lost 20 lbs and looked great. She's got no intrest in me though and that still bothers me.
My boys seem less attached to me and with money tight and the weather geting colder now it's tough trying to do things together. When I drop them off they refuse to say "I love you" unless prompted from the W.