Thanks Snodderly! Yeah, I think my not reacting is making him wonder. lol
Last night when H got home I was cooking dinner, he of course didn't eat any, but that's ok, leftovers for tonight! Yum! Anyway, when he came in he looked super angry, the look I had been given was like I had done something super awful and he was about to yell at me. My best guess would be something happened at work. I asked him if he would help me get the new screen protector on my phone, I tried but couldn't get one on. He said he would, and he did. I also asked him if I could borrow his drill for work tomorrow, he said I could and something about charging it. I was cheery during the entire interaction and offered him dinner. He declined saying he got something at the store. I said ok and went about making a plate for me.
I was really glad I didn't get body snatcher spew, I thought it could have gone that way. He seemed to soften his tone toward me, it's hard to misplace your anger on a cheery, positive person. After cleaning up my adventures in cooking dinner I retreated to my room to read and watch a little tv before bed. H had been watching tv in the living room, but then I heard him go downstairs,then up to his room, then down again, back and forth, back and forth, he was all over the place last night, maybe the issues were getting too hard to drown out,who knows. I just stayed in my room in an effort to stay out of the way and give space.