This is something I have been thinking about, BC this is a discussion we have not had. Crazy, I know. I do understand how impossible it is to move forward without it. You can't just randomly text your needs in a r out of the blue, but I do plan on taking advantage of the next opportunity to discuss my needs in a future r with H. And its ok if he isn't wanting to meet them. These ate needs that would supply to any relationship, so it is good to have clarity.

I need to have quality time with my partner, at least once a week, even if its only an hour walk somewhere. I need to have daily interactions where my partner and I communicate about our day. I need to feel supported and like an equal when it comes to domestic matters. I need to feel spurted in my personal goals and lovingly allowed to have my personal hobbies and identity. I need affection, and not just sexually. I also need the acceptance that I will make mistakes, and a partner that is willing to work through difficult situations.

I would not ask for anything that I expect/want myself to give to my partner. I know life has its challenges and don't want to give the impression that I'm looking for Mr perfect. Do my needs sound unrealistic?


Me-31 H-24
D3,D2
M 4 yrs
WAW(me) 12/2011
role reversal 03/2012
(H)PA 3-6/2012
(H)D filed 6/2012
D deemed "inactive", closed 8/2012
I've moved on 9/2012