The way things are set up is that i will be living with D8 and pretty much take care of everything but i insisted that W got a boarding room in the nieghborhood so she can come around anytime she can. I suggested she come around and have breakfast with D8 once in a while or even come by in the evening for story time before bed.
This is actually the reason I chose to come back to this city because W didn't seem to care whether or not i stayed in my own country with D8. This is so out of character and it makes me really believe that we are talking about MLC rather than WAW.
In my opinion, it's really important for D8 to see both parents as often as possible especially that we had been a very close family and often did things together. If from then on, W decides not to come around, at least I'll have done every thing I could to make it easy. At that point, I will absolutely get C for D8.
I'm now in the process of looking for C for myself and one of my main issued will be to figure out how to deal with D8 in the best way possible.
I agree with you. We all lose but my little girl lost the most and she's part of the reason I'm not giving up on W. I know she's still somewhere in there and I'm ready to be as patient as needed and to work as hard as i can to get our family back together.
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then
