Antonia, I would go see a therapist, but honestly, I'm kind of afraid to. The one I went to after XW left I didn't like because I think he had his own agenda. The marriage counselor we went to see before XW left didn't do anything for us. Then I find out that she was on her 4th marriage!?!?!?! WTF?
I've had a couple of decent days, but something has been told to me over the course of the weekend that bothers me a little. S26 and S17 (who have both met OM) say he is "hot-headed" or "short-tempered." Now, I know it is not my "duty" or "responsibility" but if I ever hear of him putting a hand on her, I will gladly go to jail. I have no problem with that at all. But......it isn't my place anymore. What to do?
Tad
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
