i worked with my intern until 4 then went to get s. when we got back, my knitting software upgrade had arrived and we both jumped into installing it and exclaiming and being delighted with the new changes. so much better than before.
then we went out to dinner - 2 big new things for me.
i hadn't realized that s and i had never really been out to dinner on our own before. lunches yes - but never dinner. i joked that it could be our date night and then as we walked out the door i said s let's make this a regular thing - once a month just you and i go to dinner on our own. he seemed very pleased at the idea.
then when we got there, he wanted to sit at the bar - and we noticed the synchro diving trials were on.
i've always disapproved of tv's in restaurants and sports even more - but there i was sitting at the bar with my 11 yr old watching the trials and thoroughly enjoying myself
and it only occurred to me right now, that i don't believe i thought of h even once the whole time!
wow - even i'm impressed.
so dinner date with my s and watching sports too - when mil called later she was absolutely astonished. oh and funny thing - s wanted to go to the same restaurant where that incident happened last week with h showing up when i went out with my friend
so all in all i would agree it was a successful day!!
how has your day been? good i hope?
(((( )))) zig
ps- why lesbian point of view - is that a different one??
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"