pw, sounds like you handled it really well. And you don't try to control his bedtime at HP. You sound easy to work with. She probably just didn't like being called on her inconsistency is all.
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway