Thanks Denver, as always I appreciate it my friend! I hope that she told my SS that she forbid us to meet. I'd venture to say that she probably didn't so he would think I blew him off to fit her agenda.
The folks in my anger management class tonight(Only 3 left!!! result of my confronting the OM at her house) seem to think that she is feeling me out. They think she'll start apologizing before next Monday to try and extend her holding on the car. Based on the sound of her voice and the conversation we had I don't think so. She has absolutely villified me, despite doing nothing but nice things for her and the kids over the past few months it honestly felt like she hates me now more than ever.
I'll probably kick up a new thread next Monday with what happens. I'm going to send her an email on Friday asking her to send me one detailing the nature of our meeting, and asking her to put some items in the car, and to drop it off at a local shopping center (public place) with the keys in it, and I will get it from there. I am going to do this because of her demeanor and history I honestly wouldn't put it past her to lie to the cops again to somehow extort further money from me or make my life more difficult. That's as good a reason as any to be done right? It's a shame I can't trust her any further than I could throw her
Thanks again for your feedback and well wishes Denver, greatly appreciated. Hope you had a good trip! Good luck to all in your respective sitch's!
me 38 W 30 T 3 M in 05/2010 Separated 08/2011 Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8 I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5 Anxiously waiting on the judge!