So your W isn't planning to see her D at all? That's something that needs to be discussed. If she isn't, then you need to set up C for your daughter ASAP. She's the one that's the biggest loser in this whole mess.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.