I changed screenames a while ago but never posted. I lost, threw away, or didnt have the energy to keep track of everything through selling our farm, moving, and being the rock for my kids through this ordeal.

where I am today:

I am a great father.
I am at a greater peace.
Our kids are at a greater peace, except for the middle one.
I have many friends.
I have a whole GAL life thats real.
People tend to gravitate toward me now. I have had people say its that I give off a positive vibe. I do believe this myself.

So, all in all life is good.

The MLC thing from Amy intrigued me. one is because my STBXW and I have very little contact. Amy said she deliberately did npot engage her husband and did everything to stay away. This is my STBXW to a tee.
I have let her go and will be divorced in about 90 days. This is her journey to travel.

I will post more later as I want to talk about MLC a little more.

Spirit