BTW, not saying it will happen in your sitch necessarily, but it is such a pattern. From Denver's recent update:

I ask for D in early May and she is moving back home in the middle of June! It's crazy!

Happened in mine and in so many others as well. When we give up the fear and start moving forward with our lives, our current, sad realities change. Sometimes, the WAS decides to rejoin, sometimes they don't. But, always the unhappy limbo is left behind.

Me-53
W-49
D22,D18,D15
T-Since-12/2001
Married-9/2004
She Moved Out-5/28/2010
Piecing start-04/2011
Now-together
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