Ultramarathon finish line or hallucinations?

[jbnati]

I think you are completely justified in standing firm about no overnight guests of the opposite sex when your son is there.

Yes! Thank you very much!

you would think she would want to focus 100% on your son on the nights that she has him.

Yes, you would think that. However, even we were still together, she had a hard time spending time with him, just one on one. I was grateful for the times they did actually do something together.

NTX has a good suggestion to just ask your attorney to put it in the papers, and let her be the one to bring it up. Don't waste your time arguing with her. And remember to allow your attorney to be the "bad guy" about the difficult matters you do not agree on. As my attorney told me, that is what I paid him the big bucks for.

That's pretty much where I am at now. You can see what introducing the topic did for me. ^^^ I think this sounds like a good plan now.

You continue to handle yourself as a perfect gentleman throughout this journey. I cannot imagine how many people must be scratching their heads at your wife's choice. Hang in there! ncl

Thanks ncl!!