Not butting in at all sweetbabyred, I appreciate the input, and it lines up with what I heard as well.
I recieve the military benefits, regardless of it we contest or don't contest, as long as I wait it out a few more months. Basically with over 9 1/2 years invested, even if it doesn't reach the full 10, the attorney said I would be entitled to a portion of the military pay, but definitely after 10 years it would be automatically deposited into my bank account if we divorce.
I think that is my best option. I don't want to drag it out in court and all that crap, I just want to go quietly and heal and not be bitter or any of that, if that makes sense. My husband is still a good man, who happened to make a bad decision, and continues to make bad decisions that effect us to the point where I have to move on with my life.
M-28 H-28 M-9 1/2 years T- 12 years PA- 01/02/12 (still going on)
