I'm sorry Broken. That was a tough exchange that you had with your W. I think that you have the right course of action planned though. Move on. You never know what the future holds, but you do have to watch our for YOU and your emotional health.

On another note, I would listen to her and not contact your SK's. Obviously you don't want to be hit with another protection order. Contact your SS when he turns 18 to see if he still wants a R with you. That's all that you can do. The rest is on her.

Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce