Not Sure What I am Dealing With

[KyJoe]

I have visited on and off this site for years, my wife and I have a long history of marriage issues.... no affairs, we just cannot get along.

She says she is not heard and that I do not provide a safe place for her to express herself, I see her just trying to create a great deal of distance.

I will keep this short since I am sure I am still being moderated, but today she has been in the guest bedroom for a few weeks abd the distance grows daily. I have tried discussing it with her, but there never seems to be a breakthru.