Thanks again and as always for your feedback. It's a wrap for me. Got a text from W on Saturday:
W: I heard there's a batting cage outing planned on Monday. That's cancelled now. Don't contact SS again.
Me: SS asked me to hang out. "How about we go to a batting cage and u pitch some to me and me hit? I'm trying to work on my batting cause I wanna tryout for baseball again." I was going to ask you about this tomorrow what is your deal?
W: We're getting divorced. I'm filing papers soon. Leave us alone. Good bye
Probably shouldn't have done it but I called her to discuss the closing of the car and the things I still have at her house. She is full bore with the OM and is not looking back. On the bright side I've made arrangements to pick up the car and my items next Monday.
25, you noted you cannot reconcile without forgiving. It is clear based on our conversation that she has not forgiven me. You also noted the worst choice to make is to stay married AND stay miserable. Nothing about our conversation was pleasant, her words, her tone, and her voice all made the hair on the back of my neck stand up and I felt like I was listening to nails on a chalkboard. After this talk it is clear she is done, it is also clear to me that she is no longer worth my time.
Congratulations to the OM, he can have her and they deserve each other. So goes another chapter of my life, I've really learned a lot from this one.
About time to kick off a closing thread, thanks to everyone who has taken the time to read and provide feedback to my sitch. I'm looking forward to what the future has in store, nowhere to go but up from here! Good luck to all in your respective sitch's!
me 38 W 30 T 3 M in 05/2010 Separated 08/2011 Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8 I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5 Anxiously waiting on the judge!
