I have read the DR book, I am GALing, which means going to the gym, going back to church, spending time with my boy (took him fishing this weekend, lots of fun).
But, I am confused.. For most of the time I try to be upbeat, have a smile when I see her, and look confident about my self. I "act as if" and I can see the reaction in her eyes. It is not what she expects, but she does not say anything. Now, this weekend, I hinted I went out on Friday (I didn't). It was on a phone conversation, but I could tell it made her feel some sort of discomfort. She asked me if I really, go out and she told me, that it was ok, but that it was kind of surprising because I had not called her all day.
Sunday, she called me in the morning, and when to my place before she went to work to show me her new uniform. I was not there because I went to church. She called me again hours later, but I did not answer. I called her hours later and left her a message that I had received her phone calls, but that I could not answer.
Today, I went to see her in the morning and she was pretty upset, because I was not home when she went looking for me, or that I did not answer the phone. She said she did see my call, but was pretty angry at me that she did not want to answer the phone. Now, I need to point out, that she needed to buy some other clothes for her uniform, and since she does not have a lot of money, It makes me believe she was inviting me so I could buy that stuff for her. But, her reaction, was really of being upset today in the morning, that is why I am confused.
It was exactly the reactions she had that were described on the DR book, but now I am confused as how am I supposed to react to her behavior. She was coordial, but she was pretty upset telling me that it was ok for me to do all these stuff, but that it really bothers her that now I am doing what I did not do when we were together.
