I hope to God they are including in this advice to USE PROTECTION??!
And just for the record, the coaches (at least mine) did not explicitly say have s#x with your husband first. She told me to become his girlfriend again. Be flirty, be seductive, etc. Because that's who he fell in love with, and that's what he saw in OW.
Interesting.
I'm all in favor of that, once they end all contact with their affair partner. I guess we all have to make that decision for ouselves.