I absolutely INSISTED we use a condom. i didn't have any here at my house. he did at his rental - our condoms from the past, which i knew were there.
he tried several times to say that we didn't need them. i stopped each time and insisted that that was the condition - so since he had come on his racing bike - i perched on the back and at 2 in the morning he biked us down almost 15 blocks to his place. believe me, it was not easy for him - that bike ride - that's what i meant when i said i was surprised by his determination!!
it seemed as if the fact that i was more concerned about protection rather than if we would sleep together -gave him some sort of incentive....?
i don't know - but it sure seemed like that .... ...pursuer/distancer????
who knows....
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
