more turtles by my side...

[vera be fierce]

Right, be the gf. It was more of an attitude change than a directive to get physical. I ultimately decided that tactic was not for me so I didn't go down that road.

I hope to God they are including in this advice to USE PROTECTION??!

And just for the record, the coaches (at least mine) did not explicitly say have s#x with your husband first. She told me to become his girlfriend again. Be flirty, be seductive, etc. Because that's who he fell in love with, and that's what he saw in OW.

For me also, I decided not to look outside my M. Because believe me, as soon as I told one of my friends what was going on with H and I, he was all for helping me out. LOL But I did not want to do that. And technically, he is still my H, so if I want to sleep with him, then I can. JMO I never once believed it would put us closer to a R.