TM, Sorry about the divorce papers, but I think you will feel a huge load lifted off your shoulders once the dust settles.
I would venture to say that your "xw" is the one that sent the text. I hope your friend didn't take it too seriously. Your xw just doesn't get it...she no longer has a say in what you do, when you do it and w/whom. She opinions only factor in about your little one. Too bad, she had every opportunity together and seek professional help. She's lost a great husband.
Glad to see you are up and about this morning. You have a new future to look forward to!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
