Thank you all for your response.. I have already bought and read the DR book. Pretty reasuring!!
I have followed the advice on the book, but I do not really know if I am doing things right.
Basically, the complain my W has is that I totally screwed up, by not spending time with her. She would ask me to go on a date, go walk, go to the movies etc, and my reply was always "no, I am tired". She would try to to convince me and I will get upset. Other thing she complains about, is when I had my family members come to visit. They are out of town, so I would do anything with them, even when I was tired. She sees that, and believes I would only try for somebody else but not her. In a way she is right.
