Wow. I'm stunned that this is the advice from the coaches.
I was too in the beginning. I will admit I wasn't to thrilled to try it. But I will say, it has made me feel more like my old self, and my situtation has changed some because of it I think. Do I think this alone will lead to a R? Of course not, but it helped me out of my own funk...and boy did I need that!
I think people have to try what works. And not just what might work to save their marriage. As we all know, it's really about what works to save yourself. This won't work for everyone, but for some it will put them on that path.