back in the day, I could definitely see myself squeezing into one of those belly dancing numbers... not sure about the outfit, though... the rum is just an added bonus...
As has been these days for you Brit, you sound great. Stay open to what ever possibilities may come in the future.
And the reason I love this board is that the majority of people are saying the only outcome you need is to be a happier more stable version of you. Because when we come here we're broken disillusioned desperate and in so much pain. What I've gotten from DB is how to manage those feelings so that you don't destroy whatever bit of communication and friendship that could be there between you and your ex. You'll feel better for that either way especially if you have kids. And maybe they'll take a second look. But whatever happens you would have used this time not crying your eyes out and feeling sorry for yourself but learning and growing and setting yourself up for a great future post divorce.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
And the reason I love this board is that the majority of people are saying the only outcome you need is to be a happier more stable version of you. Because when we come here we're broken disillusioned desperate and in so much pain. What I've gotten from DB is how to manage those feelings so that you don't destroy whatever bit of communication and friendship that could be there between you and your ex. You'll feel better for that either way especially if you have kids. And maybe they'll take a second look. But whatever happens you would have used this time not crying your eyes out and feeling sorry for yourself but learning and growing and setting yourself up for a great future post divorce.
I could not have said this better myself. This is exactly why I love DB as well.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
I think I write the best first thing in the morning...fully rested having my coffee and thinking clearly...before anything else creeps in and affects me.
Today I had a moment after something happened...or rather didn't happen between me and H. He took S somewhere and didn't contact me at all around it. And I thought gosh how much of my time and life was spent the past few months analyzing every single bit of his actions and our interactions. A few weeks ago I was done with it because I was so upset and angry at him invading all my thoughts. No I'm just done with it because it gets me no where. And anytime my focus is on him, it's not on me and my growth and happiness.
Tomorrow he and his GF are going to an event with his family, probably his sister and her BF. it's something I love and always loved the idea of going with his family but I am remembering how the times we did....he didn't enjoy himself, etc.
I have a lot going on in my life almost too much to spend my time thinking about the sitch! I don't know how much I'll be around over the next few weeks but I'm gonna try.
yes to the royalties...should we have you in a buddha pose on the front with WWBD? on the back? wish we had these ready for the Olympics.. think they would be a big seller for athletes in search of confidence.
i read your post on zig's page..just don't get the divers names mixed-up with her turtle names..lol. anyhow, i am so excited for you, what an incredible experience.
we will try our best to be patient during your absence and i will work on channeling my inner Brit!
Me(f): 51 W: 41 DP:8 M:3 T:10 "W not happy" 7/11 D final: 8/13
the rum is just an added bonus... 
