Needing some guidance... 5

[reachingHigher]

That's true. I had my first son out of wedlock and had to sign and say I wouldn't leave a tri-county area. I eventually did leave after taking child support from my son's father for three years, cashing the check and giving him the cash back. Thus he had a paper trail showing he paid child support but was actually using the money for himself. He was willing to let me leave when I requested at our son's age six. He was minimally involved with his son. Took him to lunch once a week on Monday. That was it.

It can be difficult to move away. I forgot about that.