I'm with labug, the example of patience and perseverance. Jks doesn't sound emotionally ready to dump H.

Maybe make the pros and cons list of moving/not moving? Sometimes it's easier to think when it's laid out before you on paper.

Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway